The best martial artists are those with open minds. While every person has a style that speaks to them it is hard to be respected as a person or martial artist if there is not acceptance of others' ways and an openness to learning new approaches and methods.
It is commendable and demanding of respect when a person decides to dedicate themselves to a specific art and work within that sect of the martial arts community. Yet it is deplorable when this same person scoffs and sneers at others efforts within a different sect.
While it is no doubt true that certain styles or approaches are more effective there is still validity within the practice of those so-called "less effective" styles. Each person must decide for themselves why it is they practice. After all, Bruce Lee did say that in the end all knowledge is self knowledge, including knowledge of martial arts. Upon continued dedication the practitioner learns about himself in ways of which he was previously ignorant. For example you will learn by taking just one kickboxing class how flexible / inflexible you are.
Getting back on point, when it comes to the different approaches, styles and training methods of different martial arts it is of course still another thing all together to come to blows and to fight. That is to say that there can be a big difference between what you train for and the way a fight can go, especially out in the real world where there are any number of objects within the environment let alone the possibility of concealed weapons or firearms.
Now I could go on and say how useless it is for someone to spend their life learning empty hand forms and that they should instead take krav maga or Aikido to learn about disarming and control through joint manipulation. But it would be against common sense to say that it is useless to learn a form. For it has its own beauty and use there within. Discipline, control, learning body mechanics through movement and developing strength, power, flexibility and muscle memory of technique and perhaps the public performance of this form would even inspire others to seek out and enjoy the world of martial arts.
So what is the best and most effective martial art? It is a trick question. First you must ask yourself, "What is my goal through practice?" From there you poke around and decide which art is a good fit for you. Take note now as well and don't let yourself get brainwashed as so many do within their own space. The first martial art you dive into will forever be a large part of your life but don't let it weigh you down or cloud your mind when branching out to something new or conversing with someone with background in a different style. There is much to be learned but it is difficult for that learning to occur through closed doors.
Take your knowledge from school to school always filling your cup more and more. Remember what you learn and be open to receiving more and more. Again, when two martial artists meet it is not that there is one wrong and one right. They are simply different and it is through appreciation and acceptance of this difference that both can learn and grow.
Calasanz Explains His Approach to Training : Commitment
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"The reason that I work through commitment is that
I don't like to hold anything back. I am not Chinese or Japanese. I
am not Asian. I like to give it to you to take it
home with you. I like to give it to you without holding back. That is
one of the reasons why I teach anyone.
"Look, if you are going to spend 12
or 15 thousand dollars a year training here privately I am going to make
sure that you learn. But besides that, anyone can train with me for less; it's all based on what they get, how they get it and
how much they get in a way that they can do it themselves.
"That is the
way I work. By commitment. If you commit to a 1 year program under me I
will train you. If you are committed I will give everything to you, I don't care anymore. But remember, I train you not just by leading you, not just by sitting down and
leading you. We can do it that way if you like. I can give you a personal
trainer for half an hour once a week. I can give you that even for one
hour. The person will lead you and you will get a good workout, and get fit. But me, I don't work like that, I don't lead
anyone because then I am not really teaching them. But this is the American
way... and this is what is called private training. Lots of people spend tons of money every year because they don't want to think. They just want to
be led. Which is good, but that does not mean that tomorrow if they stopped going to their trainer that they know anything. By doing it that way they don't learn or
know how to be responsible and do it themselves. And that is not the Ancient or Asian or Oriental way.
"So I work under commitment. You see with a commitment I can teach anyone. For example, if I
give someone 3 techniques per month for one year at the end of the year they will have 36
techniques. Do you know how much 36 techniques is if you're doing it
for one year on the 20 arm wooden dummy or the traditional wooden dummy? What
else do you need? By that time you have accomplished everything you
need to fight. Again, it is not how many forms or katas or movements you
learn, it is how often you are active and continue to do those movements.
"Another example : hitting the dummy creates
endurance. You can have that endurance with only 5 or 6 movements,
which was what I did or what I was doing before I even knew that Wing Chun existed. I was known as the guy being all over the place, hitting the tree. I was
known even on the farm and most of the kids knew me and saw me getting ready for a fight
just hitting a tree or a pole. I didn't know
that I was doing Wing Chun. There is a secret over there,
that if people discover that 'secret' the game is up.
"That is one of the reasons that when I was training in New York City with Moyat... a story I repeat over and
over... I would go over there and I would over power everybody. I had
more endurance than anyone over there from my time hitting and hitting. The other students had all the techniques and
they would touch me all over the place using Wing Chun, but they had no power, no endurance. Moyat wouldn't allow them even to see the dummy; and there is no Wing Chun without the
dummy. Ip man knew only 3 sections of the dummy and a little bit of Siu Lim Tau when he became the champion in Hong Kong. Because he trained by
repeating sections 1, 2 and 3 on the dummy over and over and over for hours and
hours and hours.
"One thing that I say is that I don't take ANYTHING to the grave.
I leave it here because I know what I have and I know what I could have
been by now if I had been organized. You see, there are thousands of people who are good. That doesn't mean
that just 1 person is good "Oh yeah, Calasanz is good. No body else,
everybody else is bad." No, far from it. There are millions of good talented people around. Millions of champions. You know? So, commitment is my way. I like to get
people committed so they can learn and develop. That they can really get something out of their time here. I hope that by the time that I get a little older
that I can have that established like it used to be.
"I used to have a minimum of 3
years commitment to the school. This gave me the time to really teach someone my martial arts. You know, it used to be very expensive, but only very expensive for those that could pay. For those who could not pay they
would compensate by going and promoting the name by fighting and competing; so they almost got it for free. That was how I created one of the most scary and reputable names in the mid 80's, by training those who could use it and go to represent me. And they did. And they won.
The guy who pays doesn't want to represent anyone. He just wants to learn and to be in
shape. So... that is why I prefer to train by commitment.
"I will
work with anyone and they don't have to spend ludicrous amounts of
money. But, if they want me to lead them then we are back to the old way. Up
until about 2008 I trained people and it was very expensive. But now I've reworked
the prices and the programs and we are back... if you train 1 on 1 at the upper level you are going to pay good money per hour. That is the rules, that is just simple. How many people are out there as personal trainers and say, "Oh I charge $250 per hour to sit down and tell a
person, 'Lift. Do curls. Go use that machine.'" ... Great... Great
learning... $250 an hour. There are a lot of people who
still do that, and there are even more people that still pay for it.
"What I
give people when they train with me for one hour, it doesn't even compare. I remember that when someone came in who I
wanted to sign as a 1 on 1 student all I had to
do was tell them, 'Today I'm going to give you 1 hour at the value of
$380; then you tell me at the end if you want to do a private program or not. Just talk to me after.' Probably 90% of the
people that I have done that with end up signing and making the
commitment in order to get it at half or one third the price.
"But... what will you get in those hours? You are taught to learn, to be
coordinated. Just now I am training a girl. She has
it all. What I did for that girl in 2 weeks is the equivalent of what any other school would give her over 2 years. A guy who has trained with me a long time came in while I was mid-session with her and he didn't know how long she has been training here. I asked him, "Hey [N]. How long do you think
she has been training here?" As she was training, kicking and punching
in front of him. He said, "5 years? 4 years?" and I said, "No, 2 weeks." I did that for her. I had plans for her to do a solo
commercial for us. Just her. It was going to be played on T.V. But then...
Good news Bad news. After doing those two weeks
of hard work with her she found out that her college owns her. She has a scholarship through her college rowing team and they own her. So
unfortunately she cannot do that for me.
"So
that is the story of commitment. I can do anything. I can do anything in the martial art. I can take you further than ever and further than anyone else. Another example, Joe a young student here, his father
signed him up for 3 months. I said, "Give me a year membership and I
will train your kid privately. Otherwise he can come at 7 o'clock at
night for the group classes." He replied, "No, no, no Calasanz I will
sign him up for the year." and then he got trained by me. So, that is
what is going on. Understand.Commitment. You want to see a change in your kid? You want to see a change in yourself and you don't want to complain that you spend 7, 8, 10, 15, 20 thousand
dollars? Commit yourself to a period of time that I can have to work with you and you will see that change. In that time you will understand what real fitness training, real martial art and real learning is."
